The single biggest thing standing between you and success in Stripping is…

Do you ever wonder what stands in the way of you and success at work.  There are other girls at work that make it seem so easy and get tons of dances with customers.  They consistantly go home with large sums of cash all the time.  What’s stopping you from going home everynite with buckets of money?  The answer is YOU.

At the end of the day, you are the only thing standing between you and success.  Success and winning is an attitude.  Success isn’t measured in money, power, or cars.  Success is a  frame of mind, so much that if you think about this scenario you’ll understand why.  If you took away all of Donald Trump’s money and property, in a few years he would have it all back.  Now if you gave someone $10 million dollars, like they just won the powerball lottery, in a few years they would likely have lost it all.  There’s a reason.  One takes responsibility for their actions, and accepts failure.  The other has all kinds of reasons why they lost the money, the wife spent too much, i gave some to my family and friends, that 2nd house in South Miami looked like such a good deal.  You see, sometimes failure is a bump on the road to success.  Not everyone sees it like that, and they are the ones who continually blame other things or people for their failures.  You have to have heard of the saying, “you’re gonna have to break a few eggs if you’re gonna make an omelet.”  That’s exactly true, some bad things will happen on the way to success, but you learn from those situations, not sit there and stew about them. 

Now if you are currently one of those people who like to lay blame on everyone else, you are going to have to change something about your self.  Your attitude!  If you have the attitude of an unsuccessful person, no amount of reading or self analysis is going to make you successful.  You have to be the one wanting to succeed, and get where you want to be.  The moment you change your attitude, opportunity will come to you.  Here are a few points to help you understand why you are where you are.

 You have exactly what you want right now.

Making money and lots of it really isn’t that hard for exotic dancers.  But then why is it only a handful of dancers or maybe even one at a club makes most of the money a nite?  Because most dancers are ok with where they are at in life right now.  They have enough to exist on, to get drunk on, to go buy some new clothes and pay their cell phone bill.  They are happy in their little existance.  If they weren’t they would do something about it, wouldn’t they?  If they REALLY wanted something terrible bad, like a new or nicer car, or a big screen t.v. or a much bigger apartment, they would go out and work that much harder until they had the money saved up for it.  Most people wish they had nicer things in life, but if they wanted it bad enough they would go out and make it happen.  Wishing and wanting are two different things.  Understanding the difference is crucial to being successful.  You may wish you had a nicer vehicle like right now, but what exactly are you doing about it to make it happen?

Why? 

Now figuring out what is a good enough reason to go out and work harder and smarter, this is what will motivate you to make things happen.  Most people stay in the lifestyle they are in because they don’t have a good enough reason to leave it.  They are comfortable in their existance, and while everyone wishes they were rich, most will settle for what they have now.  Why do you want to be successful?  Why do you want that nice car, why do you want a bigger bank account?  The reason you haven’t been successful in the past isn’t totally because you wished too much, it’s because the reason you had for being successful wasn’t a good enough one to get you going.

Remember, at the end of the nite, you are the only thing standing between going home with $100 or with $450.  Where you want to be and where you wish to be are two different things, and you alone are standing in the way of those two things.  What is your reason why?  Figure this out and you’ll be earning what you want, and starting owning the things you want.  Stop wishing and start asking yourself “why?”

Josh and Chandra

No related posts.